So, in writing BEW, I don't have any kind of agenda besides making a fun game that I'd like to play. I'm not trying to teach any kind of morality message or to try and tell people how to behave. At the same time, in my opinion, in order for a game to have depth, it needs to operate in some gray areas at some points of the story. These gray areas also allow for some interesting conversation and debate. Yes, I have my own ideas on things that I'm happy to share in conversations on the forum; however, I'm not going to insist that my ideas are the "right way" or "proper way" and that everyone should align their thinking to mine.
One thing that I am incredibly flattered about, is that BEW can elicit strong emotions from people. To me, that means that some people really care about the game, and to some extent, even the characters in the game. That's awesome if true. It means that I'm making good characters and telling a good story that is both involving and interesting.
So some topics I'll weigh in on here briefly, one is cheating. In my opinion, the definition of cheating is whatever the couple involved in the relationship consider it to be. For some couples, simply flirting with someone else might be considered cheating. On the other hand, if Natalie was in a relationship, and her partner was that type of person who felt that even flirting was cheating, then certainly giving someone a lap-dance would be considered cheating. Yet, other couples may allow sex with other people and have it not to be considered cheating, in what is sometimes called an open relationship. So the question of whether or not Emily is cheating on her fiance with Brad is really between Eddie and Emily, and the real question is whether or not Eddie would consider Emily flashing her underwear to Brad as cheating.
In regards to the status of strippers...Well like any profession, I think that some are really good, awesome people. Some
really are working their way through college, and some are total whore sleazebags. Whether or not someone would take one home to their mother actually says more about the mother than the stripper. I know for a fact that my own mother has enjoyed a few fine meals in a strip establishment, and participated a little too gleefully in the show by stuffing various ladies' thongs, much to her son's growing embarrassment.
In regards to the status of those with a LGBT slant...well my family seems full of it. My late sister was gay, my brother is gay. Three cousins on my mothers side are gay, to on my fathers side are gay, and more. I kind of feel like Marissa Tomei describing the mechanics in her family for the movie
"My Cousin Vinny".
Also factoring in the inordinate amount of bisexual people in my family, I'm firmly convinced there is no "choice" in the matter. People are what they are, and we should respect that. At the same time, some people may not be fully aware of their own sexuality, and in some cases may have some denial about it. This might normally be those who trying to deny within themselves that they are gay, but there's no reason that a few of those who identify as gay may have some bisexual tendencies.
So finally, in regards to forum rules. The overarching rule for BEW is "Don't be a jerk." I have a very low tolerance for it, and this thread has suddenly come very close to my threshold. It is not my intent here to single anyone out, directly or indirectly, so please don't take it that way. I absolutely want to hear everyone's viewpoint, and the only way for that to happen is to have open-minded, respectful conversations. Anyone trying to force your own viewpoint on others, especially by denigrating others for sharing their view point is considered being a jerk, in terms of the forum rules. Everyone is different, has different life experiences. Feel free to convince others of your viewpoint through sharing your experiences in a positive way, but keep it positive. Everyone should refer to the
Forum Rules for a refresher.
Consider this a first warning.